Desensitization

“If you're offended by my boundaries, then you’re probably one of the reasons I need them.” - Steve Maraboli

Phase 2 of an attack by a non-stranger is called Desensitization. This occurs when the predator repeatedly tries to cross your personal boundaries. These intrusions of your boundaries could be verbal, physical, or psychological. Over time, the boundaries weaken. Now the behaviors of the predator have become normal, and they then try to find new personal boundaries to cross by using the same repeated intrusions. 

It is easy to dismiss the initial intrusive behaviors, especially if you believe the person would never harm you. The key to phase 2 survival is to understand that even though you may have overlooked or even invited the initial behavior, you are under no obligation to continue to accept the behavior. As soon as you feel uncomfortable, express your concerns, define your boundaries, and end it.